The Secrets of being one with her

You see a woman is one complex being that no man can uncover

She resembles her mother in wisdom

She resembles her father in strength

A woman is one being that a man cannot live without

She is a pillar of strength and the well of dignity in the home

A woman can never be seperated from her emotions

she cannot be seperated from her pain

She cannot be seperated from her glory moments and

She does not forget who she is

This is why a man will never  be able to live without a woman.

See a woman is the carrier of love and

she is a carrier of souls

Once we men understand that about our women

We will appreciate them even more

And that is the secret of being one with her.

Chris Hani at a glance

Extract from Wikipedia

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Political and military career
At age 15 Hani joined the ANC Youth League. As a student he was active in protests against the Bantu Education Act. Following his graduation, he joined Umkhonto we Sizwe (MK), the armed wing of the ANC. Following his arrest under the Suppression of Communism Act, he went into exile in Lesotho in 1963.^[1]
He received military training in the Soviet Union and served in campaigns in the Rhodesian Bush War in what is now Zimbabwe. Though the combined operations of MK and ZIPRA in the late 1960s were a military failure, they consolidated Hani's reputation as a brave soldier of the first black army to take the field against apartheid. His role as a fighter from the earliest days of MK's exile (following the arrest of Nelson Mandela and the other internal MK leaders at Rivonia) was an important part in the fierce loyalty Hani enjoyed later as MK's commander. In 1969 he produced and signed, with six others, the 'Hani Memorandum' which was strongly critical of the leadership of Joe Modise.^[2]
In Lesotho he was the target of assassination attempts, and he eventually moved to the ANC's headquarters in Lusaka, Zambia. As head of Umkhonto we Sizwe, he was responsible for the suppression of a mutiny by dissident ANC members in detention camps, but denied any role in abuses including torture and murder.^[1]
Having spent time as a clandestine organiser in South Africa in the mid-1970s, he permanently returned to South Africa following the unbanning of the ANC in 1990, and took over from Joe Slovo as head of the South African Communist Party in 1991. He supported the suspension of the ANC's armed struggle in favour of negotiations.^[3] However, he stated that he would not rule out violence in a speech on National television shortly before his death.

Conversation of ordinary South Africans

 doesn't it dazle you when a simple conversation turns into an issue of racism?

  

ANC wishes MP a speedy recovery

April 8 2013 at 01:49pm
By SAPA

Mike Watkins • a day ago

·         Wishing her well!" what hypocrisy from our racist and incompetent regime. The perpetraters will probably be terminated for having failed the regime's expectations. This smells like a plot to leverage internal opposition.Like the replacement of the Limpopo NEC and the dissolution of the ANC youth league.I'd not hesitate to put the SACP behind this. Its got the sort of foul smell of their scheming. I'd love to know what it was that Susan van der Merwe had done to irritate the regime? Beyond her just being White in a racist tripartheid regime. hope it was because she was white. Because then the Cronin and the Craven will have to watch their backs too.

Vuyolwethu Dondashe Mike Watkins • a day ago

What an immature thing to say. Why can't it be just about crime with you guys, why does it always have to be about racism? Your statements lack crediblity and lack evidence and are highly inappropriate even for you to say. Here's a suggestion for you - Go and read LAYING GHOSTS TO REST, maybe you'll lay yours after reading chapter 4

§  paco12 Vuyolwethu Dondashe • 4 hours ago

 

One little "elst were" statement and no contest - I wonder what goes on in your head when you are dealt a blow of reality?!

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GERALD ARNIE Vuyolwethu Dondashe • 6 hours ago

 

The ANC was conceived and bred because of Apartheid Without it, the party will die. Apartheid must be kept alive at all costs to ensure it's survival. Retaining ignorant voters is the first step in staying alive. The ghosts will never be laid to rest

§  Mike Watkins Vuyolwethu Dondashe • 17 hours ago

 

given that you can read I assume you are intelligent? Go and read some psychology references on brain-washing and how it works and is done.The regime made everything about race when tripartheid started telling the ANC what to do. It was no longer about SA then just self-enrichment. If you cannot see that you must be a product of Angie and Blade's incompetences. And I can only feel sympathy for you. Go well! and may you not pass on too young to have lived a full life!

§  soutie2 Vuyolwethu Dondashe • 21 hours ago

 

Since day one,everything has been about race in SA.

§  Vuyolwethu Dondashe soutie2 • 4 hours ago

 

But that needs to change. Point of correction to Gerald the ANC was established in 1912 and the Apartheid was conceived in 1948 therefore there is no way that the ANC was bred for Apartheid. I am not an ANC member but I am a member of this country that we both live in. Don't you think that maybe the brainwashing occurred during the days of Apartheid? Just asking. So if you wish to call me names Mile Watkins please call me a liberated mind that seeks to see beyond race, gender and religion, a mind that seeks to see this beautiful country's citizens get along. Of course I see what is happening in this country and I share the same views with you when it comes to self-enrichment that these politicians are after. But as long as we sit behind some computer or iPads or blackberries and don't do something about it we will always be in this position. Government is supposed to serve the people's interests and they are not supposed to be authoritarian. Unfortunately because of the legacy that Apartheid and other brain washing expeditions, these have left our people both white and black frustrated.

§  soutie2 Vuyolwethu Dondashe • an hour ago

 

Irrespective of the reasons/causes the divisions between black and white in S.A. today will take several generations, if not centuries, to be bridged. There is no quick fix solution. however, an approach and thinking as demonstrated by yourself can only help speed things up and is cause for optimism.

EVERY BLACK MAN MUST STAND TALL, WALK TALL AND KEEP HIS HEAD UP"...Oral Presentation by Duma Nokwe (1927-1978)

Being Black in the Work Place

They take my kindness for weakness.

They take my silence for speechless.

They consider my uniqueness strange.

They call my language slang.

They see my confidence as conceit.

They see my mistakes as defeat.

They consider my success accidental.

They minimize my intelligence to "potential".

My questions mean "I'm unaware".

My advancement is somehow unfair.

Any praise is preferential treatment.

To voice concern is discontentment.

If I stand up for myself, I'm too defensive.

If I don't trust them, I'm too apprehensive.

I'm defiant ! if I separate.

I'm fake if I assimilate.

Yet, constantly I am faced with work place hate.

My character is constantly under attack.

Pride for my race makes me, "TOO BLACK".

Yet, I can only be me. And, who am I you ask?

I am that Strong Black Person...

Who stands on the backs of my ancestor's achievements, with an erect spine pointing to the stars with pride, dignity and respect which lets the work place in south Africa know, that I not only possess the ability to play by the rules, but I can make them as well......

Struggle continues......

Oral Presentation by Duma Nokwe (1927-1978) who was Secretary- General of the ANC from 1958 to 1969. On March 9 1956 Duma Nokwe became South Africa's first black advocate.